tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-85205762011-11-28T17:30:07.369+08:00Just Thoughts and Feelings...Babbling on... nothing much really... :)芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.comBlogger5111100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-61857787569617371352011-11-28T17:29:00.002+08:002011-11-28T17:30:07.379+08:00

been a long time since I blogged....

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A deadline is a deadline.If you missed a deadline and come 1 day later, and you can't find the person whom you should submit the required items to. It is your fault. Not the fault of the person whom you can't find.And a deadline is there for a reason. If you missed a deadline, you have to ask how to follow up. Not blame it on a person who took leave. How does this person know when you would

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-67329934762664375372011-01-26T09:14:00.003+08:002011-01-26T09:34:33.946+08:00

It must be my condition that has impaired my ability to deal creatively with unreasonable people who happen to feature prominantly in my life...unfortunately against my wishes.I read that temper can be short due to the constant fatigue and all the raging hormones. Maybe that's why I haven't been as patient as I have for the past 31 years of my life.At the same time, i wonder why and how some

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-70824905129308038052011-01-25T09:10:00.003+08:002011-01-25T09:11:52.834+08:00

Life is not going to be fair because...everyone's perception of fairness is different, tinted by their own upbringing and view of the world

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-23841127574251490462010-12-30T17:40:00.004+08:002011-01-07T15:50:51.738+08:00

Taking stock...achievements of the year...most regretable - did 4 mths' work in the beginning of the year which was not considered for bonus computation... sob sob...most remarkable - Took a 4-mth maternity leave w/o having kid but no-pay as well....most spectacular - spent the next 4 mths trying to figure out what my job is about and realising that maybe I don't like it that much..... opps...

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-55432721135147129532010-12-15T01:13:00.000+08:002010-12-15T01:14:15.690+08:00

An outsider. Will always be an outsider.

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It's strange actually...that you can be in and yet out at the same time.You are supposed to belong to a department. and yet....at the same time, you do not get to participate in activities, share in certain activities within the department...Wouldn't it be much better in trying to promote cohesiveness rather than divisiveness and sometimes even elitelistness??****************I think being fair

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Start date: Monday, 21 May 1979, 14:15:00Round number of seconds later500,000,000 seconds later: Saturday, 25 March 1995, 15:08:201,000,000,000 seconds later: Thursday, 27 January 2011, 16:01:401,500,000,000 seconds later: Tuesday, 1 December 2026, 16:55:002,000,000,000 seconds later: Sunday, 5 October 2042, 17:48:202,500,000,000 seconds later: Friday, 9 August 2058, 18:41:403,000,000,000 seconds

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-71716941529483950272010-09-15T21:57:00.000+08:002010-09-15T21:58:10.244+08:00

my heart says NO.....but is it only inertia?

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-47358703896189058002010-08-05T12:33:00.001+08:002010-08-05T12:35:02.270+08:00

I must say thank you to the faculty and staff of the Wee Kim Wee School of Communication and Information for inviting me to give your convocation address. It’s a wonderful honor and a privilege for me to speak here for ten minutes without fear of contradiction, defamation or retaliation. I say this as a Singaporean and more so as a husband.My wife is a wonderful person and perfect in every way

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-82445934283131747122010-07-24T13:25:00.003+08:002010-07-24T13:38:23.664+08:00

strangely i can't seemed to get well tis time... stomach behaving weirdly...is the lack of a purpose in life a possible reason for the prolonged sickness?or is this a result of extended period of overworking under emotional pressures?watever it is, i have to recover soon...i just feel very upset that I am unsure what is wrong wif me....temp keep going up and down (down whe i take paracetamol)

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-17202813536077163382010-06-14T01:52:00.002+08:002010-06-14T01:53:07.233+08:00

Time flies.....I'm off to Europe in another 19 hours' time!But when I am back, I would be quite broke and need to find job liao! hahaha

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-90437521780917739972010-05-12T16:09:00.003+08:002010-05-12T16:14:25.968+08:00

Am doing housekeeping on my pc. everytime i changed pc, things get shifted fr 1 to the next. so thr's quite a lot of junk...chanced upon this article which i mentioned before in 2005 - http://goodthingscome2thosewhowait.blogspot.com/2005/01/when-you-divorce-me-carry-me-out-in.html#commentsstill brought tears to my eyes......this story was told in 2005. times now has changed even more. everything

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-67351148090967216942010-04-25T23:50:00.003+08:002010-04-25T23:57:35.764+08:00

the list of things i wld be doing/like to do in May -1) piece together a 5000pc jigsaw2) catch up on reading3) make some handmade accessories4) learn to play keyboard5) self-teach belly dancing6) learn to drive7) brush up on my ang mo pronounciation8) brush up on finance and accounting9) learn about religions and about faith10) keep a journalmost importantlyRest! Relax! Reflect! Recuperate!

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-49831972813642500392010-04-12T00:52:00.002+08:002010-04-12T01:04:14.062+08:00

lost...now that i finally got wat i need - a break.am not sure wat i wld be doing. shld 1 plan or not plan?am oso unsure about the future... not having a job to return to....suddenly it oso seems that i am back to zero. wat do i wanna do next? back in admin in edu industry? do smtg else? or like some ppl say - start a biz?now it's beginning to seem better to have a job and something to focus on,

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-73218077162582775292010-03-24T11:04:00.002+08:002010-03-24T11:15:33.801+08:00

Reality is starting to set in...even before it becomes reality.... haha..really can't bear to leave the school i helped build...last night i was travelling alone back home...and it suddenly hit me... sudden sadness in solitary moments...i have spent much of my time in the past 4 years, helping to build this...and many people referred to me as a pioneer of the school... i always say i try my best,

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-17192266702598628762010-03-21T19:34:00.003+08:002010-03-21T19:40:35.462+08:00

decision made, time for next stepto start toking to people who wld be upset wif my decision, esp the 2 men at the top...i have stopped caring abt the work oredi...for a while i tink...you know, when you sense that the person you reporting to does not care....somehow it affects...at least for me...and the only obstacle tt lies ahead is my conversation wif the 2. and wat worries me more.and thr are

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-30641392815077387912010-02-23T23:03:00.003+08:002010-02-23T23:15:05.989+08:00

I suddenly remembered this question that the tour manager asked me and a group of girls when I was on my europe trip in 2001."Are you good or are you nice?"My answer - "Nice girl" but what is the difference....?His answers -“The good girl goes out for dinner with a guy, goes home, and goes to bed.”“The nice girl goes out for dinner with a guy, goes to bed, then goes home.”*roll eyes*

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-84856465398486929442010-02-22T23:39:00.002+08:002010-02-22T23:41:28.001+08:00

I think I'm happier now!although on and off my work affects my mood...but generally i am happier....it is really better when you have someone to share your life with...good or bad....happy or sad....even when you discuss things, argue abit... it still is better!

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Feb is almost over now...is time going faster?or is work eating up too much time?

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January 2010 has just zoomed pass...Tomorrow is Feb liao...everytime i pause and think about how fast time passes...my mind can't help but go back to this article i read a while ago about priorities in life and the allocation of time to the different tasks...most people, except some workaholics, would say that their priority in life is family....strangely enough....the amount of time spent at

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-30769449489630281992010-01-25T00:02:00.003+08:002010-01-25T00:24:11.772+08:00

Just watched Avatar the 2nd time... in 3D since it's supposed to be very good...but honestly i preferred the 2D version...cuz u dun need to wear the damn specs (which cost $85 if you break it...*roll eyes*). so uncomfy. and 3D makes people slightly giddy... and the difference, at least to me and my companion, was negligible...however, the show has proven itself... although it's the 2nd time i'm

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-48269454717650637702010-01-03T00:29:00.002+08:002010-01-03T00:30:16.109+08:00

Dun think....Just Feel... - 2010Listen to my heart...

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-18786531607775872642010-01-03T00:22:00.001+08:002010-01-03T00:29:17.118+08:00

2010 has come...glad that 2009 is over.

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-20327822557356702962009-12-15T11:03:00.000+08:002009-12-15T11:05:44.999+08:00

i think i feel so terrible because i can't see the light at the end of the tunnel...someone is refusing the light...reading - steps to happiness is to take responsibility of your life and the things that are happening...i am never one who likes to complain...really...i get sick of my own complaining if i do too much of it...thus....i must do something to bring back the old me. i need to remove

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-69173592870376045912009-12-09T23:47:00.001+08:002009-12-09T23:48:37.356+08:00

how to ~~ pull myself out of this rut?~ energize myself to face all the challenges?~ psycho myself to face the fear?

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-68346845137094745652009-12-06T23:39:00.001+08:002009-12-06T23:40:36.529+08:00

row, row, row your boatgently down the stream...merrily, merrily, merrily, merrilylife is but a dream...

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-74216023854186046372009-12-01T11:39:00.001+08:002009-12-01T11:42:04.280+08:00

there is difference between being open and being a leech....?being a piece of blank paper in the beginning is fine but just passively waiting for others to fill it up? take a stand and drive it like it's your baby if it's decided...half hearted efforts never cut it in any instance...

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-35028812279938435002009-11-25T20:36:00.001+08:002009-11-25T20:36:06.455+08:00

I will leave not because I cannot handle. But because I really want to do something else.

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Leave or Stay?

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-72323323355153795742009-11-22T23:36:00.003+08:002009-11-22T23:43:21.856+08:00

歌手：徐若瑄 歌曲：亲爱的...我们都记得相爱最诚实这一刻对我说你不爱我谁的泪都别留如果能重来一次请别再这样宠爱我我太幸福就会忘了爱终有慢慢变化时候...就是这样, 我害怕 - '被宠爱' 和 '太幸福'...说穿了, 我对爱还是没信心...

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-69936214348402049092009-11-13T01:16:00.003+08:002009-11-13T01:19:42.984+08:00

2012 - A show worth watching...makes you think....If the end of the world is really on 21-12-2012 and you have only 3 years more to live.... what would you be doing during your remaining days?Quit your job?Dare to show your love?Spend more time with your loved ones?Travel around the world?Spend more time doing the things you love to?Now...even if it's not the end of the world in 3 years' time...

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-59336211603438626912009-10-25T12:48:00.004+08:002009-10-25T13:02:32.360+08:00

2 months to Xmas!Season for gift hunting again...it's actually quite a difficult task to get gifts, especially for colleagues...close in proximity but sometimes we dun really know their likes and dislikes...i mean superficially yes. So getting a gift they would like is not always possible. i guess all of us have experienced this before - getting a gift you dun particularly like..you dunno where

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-15275385079888314232009-10-14T23:07:00.004+08:002009-10-14T23:24:26.450+08:00

i had my appraisal today. it was good, considering I had only half my heart at work for a while, due to other things happening in my life and me shifting my focus to family and friends, trying to work some balance into my life...the past year had been tough...both at work and at home. i'm glad i survived..and somewhat stronger than before...what i wanted to say today is...not really the above...i

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-3811895718429263932009-09-30T22:00:00.002+08:002009-09-30T22:05:29.691+08:00

If you are my friend on facebook...then you would remember...a while ago, i was complaining about having too many balls to juggle...i remember it was quite amusing...1st i was juggling..then i wanted to quit playing with balls... then i posted, balls were all over the floor...Now I have left them there... yesterday I sort of continued the story of the balls...I was telling my colleague about the

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-29332272120151961672009-09-22T08:52:00.003+08:002009-09-22T09:00:06.233+08:00

At work i have to check mails from several email accounts every morning and this morning I got an email that din seemed like query but I peeped in nonetheless...and i think it's a nice surprise....although I think I am now too tired to try to change anything, not myself, not my surroundings, not anyone around me and definitely not the world... my end goal is still making world a better place,

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-61303776342729563232009-09-14T22:59:00.001+08:002009-09-14T23:10:18.819+08:00

resilience...and smoothening of mood - something i must learn for the good of myself...http://ucsfhr.ucsf.edu/index.php/assist/article/a-personal-strategy-for-engaging-and-building-your-resilience/

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-70126866955694376842009-09-08T01:09:00.001+08:002009-09-08T01:11:42.324+08:00

maybe i dun seek help v often cuz it takes trust to wan to get help fr certain people...?

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-58613505010158901262009-09-07T23:12:00.002+08:002009-09-07T23:16:00.641+08:00

From a webpage i got when i goggled 'asking for help' and found very useful.i guess...my nature is such that i dun like to bother others by asking for their help. i tend to want to help others than to ask for help. but this has opened my eyes.but is it really true???How To Ask For HelpI did an interview with writer Janene Mascerella for The Tyra Banks Show on How To Ask For Help.Some of us find

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-49665820066722101952009-09-07T13:21:00.001+08:002009-09-07T13:23:41.201+08:00

i wonder how to calm down nerves and get on to do real work...stress and over-worrying often take the time away from the doing...better planning? then again...u can only plan for so much...changes pop up at every corner.busy week ahead...look out!

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-5772353320869160202009-09-01T10:13:00.002+08:002009-09-01T10:14:04.270+08:00

Post-Hols blues...can't summon energy to put into work yet... i tink the hols was too tiring and hectic... :(HELP!! I got loads of work lor.....Please give me strength to pull through....

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Life is much more beautiful when you are grateful for everything that happens whether happy or sad...easy or tough...bright or dark...Life is much easier when you have someone to share your burdens, your joys, your troubles and your successes!

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-1676597883700778802009-08-19T23:49:00.002+08:002009-08-19T23:52:19.295+08:00

just so i won't forget this the next time i blog...haha...heard an interesting thing today...by Cecilia, my colleague who's really creative and gd wif playing wif words. haha..anyway...dunno how the conversation came to this topic...HALT actually means smtg...which reminds ourselves not to make important decisions when feeling those emotions!H - HungryA - AngryL - LonelyT - Tiredso clever rite? =P

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Lillian Too oredi said August is going to be challenging for me....Then i read some forecast from Astro sites which also imply the same thing...and at work, there's going to be some changes, got a new boss after a long period (1 year) without a direct boss, the acting one was rather far away...good things - someone to fight for the dept at mtgs together wif me, someone to discuss matters wif,

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-78441799881658806962009-07-27T12:05:00.001+08:002009-07-27T12:05:32.369+08:00

why am i so sleepy today? -_-"

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-87858647315629263222009-07-11T17:44:00.001+08:002009-07-11T17:44:47.560+08:00

got to find a way to motivate myself... how to?

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-22466824751782201412009-07-09T10:35:00.000+08:002009-07-09T10:37:49.243+08:00

something i'm really happy about my current job is how i feel i have helped to mold a person into who she is now.that day i saw her email reply about an issue, is the day i realised how much she has grown and matured in the 2 years she has been with me.And it's also the day i realise i can leave if i choose to and not worry too much about the school anymore... I am glad! =)

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-786561165438896272009-07-06T00:50:00.001+08:002009-07-06T00:50:41.930+08:00

blogs...... love them....hate them??

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-35689245937140586842009-07-03T01:38:00.002+08:002009-07-03T01:40:13.684+08:00

felt bit funny cuz someone said i sounded like a happier person on blog...i feel i hvn't been tt unhappy since a long time. the worse is over.but i feel i hv been happier (pt of reference = last year) for a longer time than the person realised i guess...

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-19601371961668046202009-06-30T17:52:00.001+08:002009-06-30T17:52:36.125+08:00

Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you've decided to look beyond the imperfections.~ Anonymous

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not sure if i shld be surprised or?cuz i actually feel quite okay with the news so far...maybe it has something to with age...and life experiences within the past year or so...Thanks to those who are concerned though.. I thank my lucky stars for caring friends!

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-87194906431433847762009-06-23T01:05:00.003+08:002009-06-23T01:20:28.870+08:00

just heard a "big" news where the effect will set in a few days later.someone told me it's normal to feel sad and the effect usually sets in a few days later...and that i am normal...cuz he goes thru the same...is that really true?most ppl tink it's strange tt i feel sad when my ex bfs get attached after breaking up with me...i mean..if u break up, it means u do not like the person anymore rite

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-55684590959778226802009-06-19T11:37:00.002+08:002009-06-19T11:39:32.777+08:00

I was ungrateful!I am so sorry to this person who actually bought me the 1st bday present of the year for me! It came on 30th April.This is happiness 0 - Thank you for the nice dress. (half paid by me no doubt but I wouldn't have gotten it if i'm paying full price. hee)Thank you again!

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Sharing a song that did not catch my eye when it was 1st introduced. Recently, chanced upon it and started to really like it. maybe it has smtg to do with life experiences and age...It's a good song to guide love. simple rhythm, sincere lyrics. nothing spectacular and catchy but worth pondering over and over again. =) makes me feel this is what love should be...simple joy that is enduring.

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-24029979004002309812009-06-18T12:18:00.002+08:002009-06-18T12:24:05.756+08:00

Wanted to find a quote on patience...but found these other ones instead...“I don't pretend to know what love is for everyone, but I can tell you what it is for me; love is knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person, love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of, love is feeling

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-31580435817390448932009-06-15T00:51:00.003+08:002009-06-15T01:19:03.548+08:00

Caught a good movie TWICE tis weekend...the same one...i know that sounds strange...but i actually enjoyed both times. cuz it's really such a good movie!ghost of girlfriends past...other than providing entertainment and making you laugh lots... this show offers a great deal..1) good looking people are always good to watch -Matthew McConaughey: good looks (although someone pointed out the laugh

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-10092615428183900792009-06-10T11:22:00.002+08:002009-06-10T11:28:38.880+08:00

i was looking thru my leave records and realised this is the 1st MC i am getting this year. I used to get sick every 2 months so i guess the Vit C and ginseng I am taking really helps.this time, a combination of hectic May, June Heat has caused me to succumb to the virus! i believe will get well soon. just need more rest...but in this heat, can be so difficult to rest properly ya? :(in office i

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-59039802791168711062009-06-02T23:26:00.002+08:002009-06-02T23:27:12.804+08:00

That we will have another party SOON!! in july - no need to wait till august..haha...30 liao...have to take care of skin...lesser late nites, lesser alcohol is the way to go la... =þ

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-49282490382759215432009-06-01T22:32:00.002+08:002009-06-01T22:46:38.324+08:00

My siters keep saying...i 3 pieces no more change liao...30....but actually have ma... when u give 4 pieces, then got change lor..hee..big change somemore....hahaha..life as a 30 year old... must admit that really getting old and have to reduce late late nites!! have to take care of health and skin etc...although my mum gave me good genes...i still cannot take for granted la!i got that hint from

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-27708803555273752752009-05-21T21:24:00.004+08:002009-05-21T22:38:32.123+08:00

somehow this year, i feel blessed...some people say 30 feels sad, before they cross the big 3, they get depressed...but somehow..i din feel that way! i feel v v happy...i feel wiser, appreciates people around me more,crisis makes or breaks people..i's a firm believer...i had a crisis last year...a bad one which made me question many aspect of my life, my views of life, how i behave, treat people

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-35554968333807101212009-05-21T07:09:00.001+08:002009-05-21T07:09:51.505+08:00

祝我生日快乐！

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i juz came back from a wonderful trip! post 1 pic here...i'm a very 1 pic shows my trip person, those who read will know by now.. =) here's the one for this trip..haha..i like the jumpshot..funny...besides laughing at the jumping girls...u shld also check out the sea!!! so pretty rite?was a fruitful trip where i did snorkelling and saw interesting things lor... saw sea urchins..nice colourful

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-67744987314709894112009-05-18T23:16:00.002+08:002009-05-18T23:56:00.192+08:00

very fast leh....3 more days to big 3 day! oh my!got the notification to re-register for NRIC..strange that even though it is mandatory, i need to pay $10? haha...and need to go down to their office to collect...and can only apply to re-register after the exact day i tink...so ma fan leh....

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System over heating.....

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some tots that I have been meaning to write down since 7plus but no chance to come online..someone u cannot live without = only choice, not just 1st choice...1st choices can be replaced...but only choices cannot be replaced...some stuff i learnt from 一切完美IIand oso..the mother spoke great wisdom too..感情是拿来经营的，不是拿来考验的 - love is to be nurtured and not to be tested (was the subtitles) hee..worth

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2 more weeks! ;) haha...Strangely I am looking forward to this year's bday! Although it's the big 3!There is nothing to be afriad of.I lived and I loved.I have no regrets for all I have done and things that have happened to me!For those mistakes I have made - I have apologised and tried to make amends.For all the good I have done - I hope to have made a difference.For all the lessons I have

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-71532934423291948592009-05-06T23:33:00.005+08:002009-05-06T23:51:00.537+08:00

Have been totally swamped with work recently..and I can't say it's cuz i was inefficient cuz i was totally efficent la! I am busy from the moment i sit in my chair when I reach office, till the time I go for lunch (usually without filling my mug, so no water whole morning)...Then busy again, from time I get back to office after lunch till knock off...And my mind would feel numbed..cramped...from

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-543128016929667722009-04-27T18:43:00.002+08:002009-04-27T18:46:42.861+08:00

Does it only happen to me? But i reckon it is very common..someone talks to you, starting out as showing concern for you, asking you how you have been and when you say things hasn't been well, starts asking about what happened and ends up telling his/her own life story...and you becoming the listener more than the listened.... the roles ultimately switched....so is this person exploiting you?

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-6937447828407832742009-04-27T17:54:00.001+08:002009-05-04T14:15:48.286+08:00

I think it might not be a physical presence..but a feeling that I am cared for...

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is there any harm in letting people know you would like to be hugged when you are feeling stressed...?And you need your loved one to be there with you. even without speaking a word, you would feel so much better and more assured and be more ready to face the challenges you have to face alone, at work etc. silence can mean support, giving of strength...or should this be limited to be told only to

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-29856772337284709572009-04-21T23:21:00.000+08:002009-04-21T23:22:08.616+08:00

1 more month!!!!!

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I'm Back......with Gifts! ;)

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Japan, here I come! ;)

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-90111261048101161712009-03-28T20:05:00.002+08:002009-03-28T20:13:24.630+08:00

Okay...I decided to go shopping today and well...I haven't done such a big scale one for a while..so i'm happy today! =)They were all good buys and I also need them cuz lost weight and old clothes can't fit...haha...do I really need justifications for shopping? =þAnyway here's the list...1) The imitation Agnes B big bag + wristlet = $29 (cheap buy I got from Tiong Bahru Mkt, the same ones will

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-17462760065474252142009-03-22T23:22:00.003+08:002009-03-22T23:58:24.246+08:00

the way you look at things changes as your life experiences accumulate...when i watched 2 movies recently...(marley and me n departure)i realise...i was quite focused on the interactions between the married couples...most of the time, this is the side show..like the marley show was more on the dog and its interaction wif the family and the departure show was more abt the man and his extraordinary

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-17879242810936317762009-02-15T22:48:00.006+08:002009-02-16T00:31:52.347+08:00

Although I have read in many Chinese Zodiac Predictions that this is not a good year for sheeps...i'm beginning to feel this is the best year ever...I am beginning to build up better relationships with my family and getting to know some things i never knew...and made me wonder if i WAS part of the family.. haha...I am learning lots about myself and still learning more...more awareness is useful

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When faced with difficulties and adversities, people learn and grow..Maybe at the same time, u realise that there are people who do not explicitly show their care and concern but have always been there for you...looking out for you..Thanks to everyone who have done that for me...I am counting my blessings and thanking my lucky stars! ;)

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curious case of benjamin buttons - find the film too long, too slow...not really moving for me... i mean the concept is interesting for me... but maybe it's the acting?i dun tink this is the intention at all... but looking at the female lead in some scenes...this came to me...why must women always hv to be so strong? for their family? for children? for themselves? can't women juz take a break

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-48076138128677262112009-02-10T21:47:00.001+08:002009-02-10T21:48:49.159+08:00

Is it really that common nowadays?Heard of yet another case.. =(and this is someone I really never thought would be in such a situation... it bothers me...

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I was bored...googled the word - Tired and here is wat came up...http://www.tired.com/click on it.... who would make such a website?So strange....9.25pm - And then i found another link on google that explains the site...hahaha...http://www.slate.com/id/2103823/ - the article is right...I almost wanted to email...But i guess in 2009, which is SO different from 2004....people are getting more

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I suddenly have an urge to thank all those who have cared for me before and loved me before.It's never easy to love and always a blessing to be loved and cared for.So thank you all, through the years. Especially my family, because they have loved me for the longest time in this world since I was born!

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-66232681618634469982009-02-01T02:40:00.002+08:002009-02-01T02:52:41.236+08:00

met up wif an old fren whom i hvn't met for a good 6 mths... i realised i knew him for 4-5 yrs now...how times flies...anyway...was telling him i feel old suddenly...after cny...juz felt old...

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Jenny sees wisdom in "放弃比坚持，更需要勇气." - Facebook status...A friend has this on msn msg...Find that it is really true...sometimes to give up requires more courage than to persevere...To give up means -1) you have nothing to hold on to anymore - past goals, commitment, conviction goes up in smoke...2) you have to admit that the thing you are holding on to is not going to work out...3) you have to

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-25882947729677837002009-01-14T21:28:00.005+08:002009-01-14T21:40:04.430+08:00

Just 1 picture...i like the view from my room..looks out direct to the sea...it's calm and relaxing esp in the morning when everything is still!Got a shot of the sunset!Grateful for the break!I would love to go there again, though no entertainment at all. Service is quite non-existant as well... Go JUST for the view!

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A great BIG smile to welcome 2009! That's me on New Year's Eve! ;)I dun care if all the stupid astro/fengshui thingy say 2009 is going to be challenging for goaties!!!! I will survive! =)p/s: I LOVE LOVE LOVE my new hairstyle! hahaha..

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-76029670920747351012008-12-10T01:11:00.003+08:002008-12-10T01:14:26.051+08:00

some people believe that love should come naturally...that's only half right...the feeling of love should come naturally..ur intuition will guide you to who you love and have affinity with...however...to stay in love, that doesn't come naturally...takes 2 people making the effort to understand each other and accept each other as themselves...that's hardly natural... some people can't even accept

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next week will be better rite?having a hard time at work...sometimes i just wish i cld run away and hide somewhere...alone... have some time alone...all to myself..

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most people wld say it's easier to be the dumper...i nvr agreed with that...unless u never felt for the person at all...u wld feel the loss whether or not the decision was made by you...and a thought occured to me just now...it might actually be easier for the dumpee really...cuz at least u get someone to blame for making the decision...whereas the dumper...gets to blame only himself/herself...

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i tink sun tzu's art of war prob has such things...enemy dun move, i dun move...i tink i'm feeling btr now...needed to vent and cool off to be able to tink properly...wat i heard is from a 3rd party...whose words i discount abit sometimes...not cuz i dun trust her but more cuz is more emotional person thus words r more emotionally charged...the incident got to me mostly cuz i had a bad week! was

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-4664323842345752562008-11-26T23:07:00.003+08:002008-11-27T00:46:12.320+08:00

Work dun get me down... people do. This happens to those who prefer working in a harmonious environment.I got to know today that someone has been spreading that I am a controlling person. And that she is very unhappy working in the same department as me. Oh, she also thinks that she is the MOST busy person in the department.The person who told me added though, that anyone who really knows her,

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-31213752921076307742008-11-24T23:06:00.002+08:002008-11-24T23:15:35.080+08:00

Maturity or 看破？I feel my view about life has changed recently. Is it just a passing thingy? Or I am finally growing up?I have been reading...still need practice in many things i wan to be able to do...like having more patience...being less forceful about some stuffs.. giving people the space to be themselves.So far, the results have been very encouraging... those times that I relax and let time

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I would do some acknowledgement at some point about the book I am reading now...here's another piece to share...Forgiveness has nothing to do with reconciliation or even holding the perpetrator harmless. Forgiveness is the process of giving up resentment or anger towards another person (or even yourself).There is a Buddhist story about a monk who was robbed at gunpoint at a bus station.

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-18673812417881562622008-11-16T19:55:00.002+08:002008-11-16T19:58:29.814+08:00

I am reading a book and would like the share the following -If u feel anxiety, just feel it. If ur mind has taken u to a dark place, just stay there.There is only 1 thing to do when u feel like u are in hell. Find the nearest busstop and sit down. When we wait for a bus, we know it's coming but we don't know when. It doesn't matter if it's hot or cold. whether it's raining or whether you are in a

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-52447230049939068322008-11-11T15:08:00.002+08:002008-11-11T15:10:27.349+08:00

hmm...can't resist...this is so beautiful! Got the pic of the marine tank that my fren is keeping. I can't believe my eyes! It's just so beautiful.. i tot it's even more beautiful than the sea....?

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I am blessed!!!! SO blessed!!!

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-49238769841828795252008-11-09T23:31:00.002+08:002008-11-09T23:38:37.476+08:00

Seeing this at work -"To love someone deeply gives you strength. Being loved by someone deeply gives you courage." -- Lao TzuI'm a believer...

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Thank you for teaching me how to save, manage my finances and increase my awareness about money matters. so that I can realise that I can do it afterall, when I see the goal clearly.Thank you for teaching me the stuff about IT just so that I can sometimes show off to less savvy friends. *haha*Thank you for all the nice things you have done for me and the not-so-nice things that had happened.Thank

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-7204571782651919062008-11-08T21:49:00.001+08:002008-11-08T21:51:41.314+08:00

one of those days in a month that i get totally emotional...when tots turn negative...when tears flow... (not every month tho)when i get totally insecure...

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-86638764522705750762008-11-05T11:30:00.002+08:002008-11-05T11:31:08.079+08:00

someone reminded me that he sings well too....that is true...but then this is not character-related ma....

芩http://www.blogger.com/profile/14555152862070258808noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8520576.post-45831941233846793592008-11-04T00:23:00.002+08:002008-11-04T00:56:59.817+08:00

I know from the way I 'complained' about him...it seems i totally hate him and tink he has no strengths at all...May I ask anyone who has been upset before....? When u r upset wif a person and complaining to another person, wld u be speaking gd things or bad about the former? of cuz bad things rite? and it's not cuz the person doesn't hv any strengths at all rite? it's juz cuz u r upset wif him

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